- Have fun. Every aberration to the social norm is an exciting and stimulating experience.
- When shopping, keep the ‘to do’ list short.
- Make the primary goal joy, not ticking boxes.
- Develop an appreciation for looking at random details for a prolonged time, e.g. the colour of a sign.
- Look ahead for ride on toys in shopping centres. Turn around and walk in the opposite direction, unless time is no issue. Then bring a book!!
- Look ahead for dogs and babies. Steer Summer away from visual access, unless time is no issue and the other person is relaxed and friendly.
- Appreciate the kindness of strangers.
- Wear loose clothing around the waist so that people don’t have to see my tummy jiggling when I am in stitches at Summer’s delightful public interactions.
- Avoid going out if there’s time pressure.
- Be very patient.
- DO NOT let Summer see others eating food!!
- Bring BETTER food!
- Before going to McDonalds, call them and ask them to put a barrier in front of the food preparation area.
- Before going to the bank, call them and ask them to put a barrier between public access and private access areas.
- Maybe bank online.
- Before going to the chemist, call them and ask them to put a barrier in front of the staff only area.
- Wear good running shoes.
- Keep lollies on hand. They reduce stress. Bribery is the key word here folks!
- Don’t make eye contact with other people if Summer becomes agitated.
- Believe that everyone is understanding.
- Smile lots, apologise quickly if needed, leave.
- When outside, look ahead for puddles. Block Summer’s view of the puddle.
- Bring spare shoes and socks.
- Remind yourself it’s good for Summer to experience the community and it’s good for the community to experience Summer.
- Watch Summer and learn from her. Love, innocence, joy, wonder, enthusiasm, excitement.