Have fun. Every aberration to the social norm is an exciting and stimulating experience.
When shopping, keep the ‘to do’ list short.
Make the primary goal joy, not ticking boxes.
Develop an appreciation for looking at random details for a prolonged time, e.g. the colour of a sign.
Look ahead for ride on toys in shopping centres. Turn around and walk in the opposite direction, unless time is no issue. Then bring a book!!
Look ahead for dogs and babies. Steer Summer away from visual access, unless time is no issue and the other person is relaxed and friendly.
Appreciate the kindness of strangers.
Wear loose clothing around the waist so that people don’t have to see my tummy jiggling when I am in stitches at Summer’s delightful public interactions.
Avoid going out if there’s time pressure.
Be very patient.
DO NOT let Summer see others eating food!!
Bring BETTER food!
Before going to McDonalds, call them and ask them to put a barrier in front of the food preparation area.
Before going to the bank, call them and ask them to put a barrier between public access and private access areas.
Maybe bank online.
Before going to the chemist, call them and ask them to put a barrier in front of the staff only area.
Wear good running shoes.
Keep lollies on hand. They reduce stress. Bribery is the key word here folks!
Don’t make eye contact with other people if Summer becomes agitated.
Believe that everyone is understanding.
Smile lots, apologise quickly if needed, leave.
When outside, look ahead for puddles. Block Summer’s view of the puddle.
Bring spare shoes and socks.
Remind yourself it’s good for Summer to experience the community and it’s good for the community to experience Summer.
Watch Summer and learn from her. Love, innocence, joy, wonder, enthusiasm, excitement.
